So today is our anniversary. I have bought her some gifts to acknowledge the day. I'm not sure really what I should do. I got caught in a similar situation at Christmas. She said we weren't buying gifts at Christmas because we needed to save money for the D and then she ended up buying me gifts. Then later on she told me that if I had bought her something she would have stayed.

I sent her a text message last night.

M: I don't know how I am supposed to act today so I'm following my heart. Happy Anniversary.

W: Well I don't know either LOL .. Thanks though smile

I have been keeping everything real quiet from side. I have only been talking to her about the kids. There was one more text message conversation I wanted to mention. On Friday she had the kids for a little while until I got off work. So I sent her a text to figure out where they were going to be.

M: Where am I picking up the kids tonight

W: What are y'all doing

W: Tonight

M: playing video games

W: probably Mommas

Hopefully you guys can give me some feed back. Today is going to be a rough day.


Togther 10 yrs Married 2/6/2009
Me-29 W-26
S-5 S-2
Bomb 12/10
Separated 1/11
D filed 2/11