So today is our anniversary. I have bought her some gifts to acknowledge the day. I'm not sure really what I should do. I got caught in a similar situation at Christmas. She said we weren't buying gifts at Christmas because we needed to save money for the D and then she ended up buying me gifts. Then later on she told me that if I had bought her something she would have stayed.
I sent her a text message last night.
M: I don't know how I am supposed to act today so I'm following my heart. Happy Anniversary.
W: Well I don't know either LOL .. Thanks though
I have been keeping everything real quiet from side. I have only been talking to her about the kids. There was one more text message conversation I wanted to mention. On Friday she had the kids for a little while until I got off work. So I sent her a text to figure out where they were going to be.
M: Where am I picking up the kids tonight
W: What are y'all doing
W: Tonight
M: playing video games
W: probably Mommas
Hopefully you guys can give me some feed back. Today is going to be a rough day.
Togther 10 yrs Married 2/6/2009 Me-29 W-26 S-5 S-2 Bomb 12/10 Separated 1/11 D filed 2/11