Originally Posted By: Scylla
So then, what's a reasonable time frame in your opinion?


As long as it takes...

It is up to you if you have the will to stay that long.

You were married for 27 years?

Is three weeks long enough for you?

Only you can say.

Originally Posted By: Scylla
cheeseless tunnels and all that.


Is it a cheeseless tunnel for you to decide something for yourself, regardless of what your spouse is choosing at the moment,

rather, in spite of what your spouse is choosing at the moment...

Because you took a vow to do so?

More importantly, would love define that as a cheesless tunnel?

What would love choose right now?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am