Need Advice!! Not sure on next move? Part 2

[dixiegal]

UPDATE UPDATE:

Going DARK and posting a few fun tidbits on FB worked!!!!!

Okay, here's the 411 friends...

This morning at 5am. H texts me "Are you awake?"

He knows I get up early on Sundays..

I waited a few minutes and responded "I am"

5 seconds later he calls!!!

H: Hi how are you?
M: I'm good and you?
H: Fine, I wanted to give you a call cause I saw on your FB you have had a lot of craziness going on. You didnt get any of the furniture ruined did you?
M: No...(Recapped the events of the week)blah blah....
H: "Well, I'm glad. I wanted to give you a call. Because when I last saw you. You asked me a question (going to see a new C) and I said we could go to dinner. I was going to call you before but, its been real crazy for me this week too. But, I wanted to make sure I got back with you."
M: "Okay, sure."
H; "Well, I usually only have Thursday's off. But, I'm not sure of the schedule yet and if they may require me to work because I didnt go in several days. Because of the Ice/Snow storm. But, if I'm off I thought we could go to Dinner and talk about a few things." "I'll find out and let ya know."
M: "Okay"

The he started talking about the Dog and her reaction to the snow and such. He said, "I took video of it so I could show you."

(So, my H always has had this thing he says to me before we would go to sleep. He says, Goodnight. I would say, Sleep tight. He says Sweet Dreams. I would say, of you. Then he would say, say your prayers.... then we would both say ILY.)

Sooooo, at the end of the convo. H says, you have a nice day at Church/Choir. Becareful. Then he pauses for a second....it was real odd!

M: "Good Night & Sweet Dreams."

H: "Of you.."


Yall I almost died!! I really didnt expect to hear from him at all!!! I should also mention that he told me where he is living! He said, he was staying w/his Grandparents since his friend got married and stuff. Of course, he said until he finds something else.

He also did alot of talking about his week, the Dog, and the weather. Asked, if his Cousin was coming in anytime soon. I said, no. But, Ill be headed to LA for Crawfish Season. H got real quiet then. Cause, that's something we have done for all these years together. At first, I could hear in his voice that he was guarded. But, I was upbeat and friendly through the whole convo. Then he started to relax..I could hear it in his voice. He even laughed a few times when I laughed. (telling my snow stories) He said, I saw your pics on FB. "I liked that one pic you took, its awesome" "Did you really lay down in the snow and make a snow angel?!"

Yall I can't wait to get to Church today that's for sure~ I'm excited but, I told myself be excited here for a second. Because, there is nothing set yet. But, its something I guess. Right?! So, I need to stay DARK and continue to do what I was doing. Putting all my focus on my relationship w/GOD and ME. Cause, I know things could change in a second. He could be just leading me on..?

Ok Yall....Lets hear the feedback!!!!

Praying for everyone today,

Dixie