Ok, I probably should not have contacted the X. But I have told H that I do not want him having any contact with her and he still goes behind my back. So I figured I would go straight to her with it. We were friends for awhile until H said he didn't want me hanging out with her because he felt that she still had feelings for him. Anyways, X wasn't to happy with the inbox from me. We have had a couple more convo's but nothing to major. H is suppose to see her on Monday about a photo album she is doing and she said that if I am not there she will not do it. Guess I will see what happens.
H has been at the house on and off all week. Things have been good up until tonight. He was here and because I have been sick we were just watching movies. Then he says he's hungry and we should go get something for dinner before he leaves. I didn't know he was going out so I asked where he was going. H says out to Roller Derby. H and friend have tickets. Well I was pissed off. I have been bugging him about going there for months and he goes with someone else???? I am definately irritated by this. He said he wouldn't go if I was going to be mad because working on things between us is more important. He ended up going anyways.
The friend he went with is where he has been staying. And he tells me that he doesn't want to cancel because they don't know what is going on with us yet. He doesn't want them to be mad at him. Sounds fishy to me. i asked why on earth would they be mad if they found out you were trying to work things out with your W? I never really did get an answer and I just feel like he is playing games.
So am I over reactting?
Me:35, 2 kids from PR H: 37, 2 kids with me T: 15 years M: 8 years in Feb. Second walk out: 14-01-2011 H had PA: 2007
