Sure! There is plenty of room. We are the antithesis of the 'Love Boat'. I'm in for the party. We can put all our locations together, map it out and meet in the middle. Our luck, we'll be partying in Podunk, South Dakota.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
Rein it in! Hope never dies! Winners never quit; quitters never win! The sun will come out . . .to-morrow. What more can I say?
You are as young as you feel? CW, you've made it this far with your mind and dignity intact. As for being an anchor, better an anchor than an albatross, and that's what our H's MLC has become. ((HUGS))
Thank you for posting on my thread! I've been trying to catch up with you! Sounds like you have had a rough time!
My ex did the same thing with the checking acct., it almost killed me but you will get thru it!! I just hate it so much for you, you have already been thru enough!
Hang in there, I like what punkin said, the sun will come out tomorrow. Believe me, if I can get thru this mess anyone can!!
Just remember I may not always get on this site, but I do think about all my cyber friends!
Today is H's birthday. H had the kids this weekend and they forgot that it was today so told them they could call him this morning and leave a message...we all forgot about it! ...they did get a card for him.
I always leave H's mail in a pile for him to get and he always takes the important stuff and left the junk mail for ME to toss! Today (at the advice of a good friend!), I picked up a change of address card and put it with his mail. Oh, and he left his W-2 in the junk mail pile. Not sure if he didn't realize what it was or what!
Have not heard back from my L yet on if a date has been set for the property agreement meeting. I worked all day Friday on gathering everything I needed! Since it has been a year since he filed, my L needed updated everything!
GAG-I did take the kids yesterday (H did not offer to buy them another fish) and we got 2 bala sharks for the aquarium...they are really shiney and pretty! The guy thought that by having 2 of them, they would be able to keep from getting eaten by the cat fish!
Other than that...
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
How are your new sharks doing?????????? I LOVE that you bought sharks. Did your children talk with H about the fish tank or the new sharks? Maybe you could do something special with the fish tank (e.g. buy special food; take videos of the fish swimming around; add some funny toys to the tank; name the fish and make up funny little stories about them, referring to the fish by name; have a birthday party for the fish at dinner one night, wearing party hats) so that when your kids spend time at H's, they will talk about how much fun you've been having with the fish tank...........Just throwing ideas out there.
My TT games with XH, which have become one of my primary connections with XH, began when he asked me to buy something from a store that he doesn't have a membership to (I got that membership in our settlement). I told him that I would do that for him if he would barter services with me. One of the things I asked him to barter with me was practicing TT with me one day......That was last June and now we're playing weekly and going out to restaurants afterward.
Great idea to submit change of address card for H's mail. Let H deal with his junk mail for a change!
Will H be contacting you more to exchange info for taxes? That could be an opportunity to DB too.
Oh, and he left his W-2 in the junk mail pile. Not sure if he didn't realize what it was or what!
