Well, that is pretty much 100% my dilemma. My "instinct" is to do what bond says and just try to contact her and talk like nothing is going on but my DB mindset is to let her go through this. Let her go and find out for herself what she wants. It obviously wouldn't hurt if I could just talk to her like everything was normal but I'm not sure that I trust myself to do that. I know that I'm way more capable now than I would have been even a couple of weeks ago but I use my email as an example... I wanted to keep it light and just respond but that was seen as way too much. If I try to talk to her on the phone there is no telling what kind of mistakes I would make lol.
I *want* to call... but whether or not that is what I should do idk. That's why I'm asking. I want to stay as objective as possible. Bond thinks I'm being a wuss for not calling but I just know that when I leave my decisions up to me I usually make a mistake lol
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