Well, I should have read through the rest of the posts before I answered...sorry.
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I just recently moved into his home, in my own room, as we thought this would be best, for a trial and too lesson expenses. We have talked about marriage and we want to be married but he wants to wait a little longer, It IS very hard on us, but we deal with it. We have talked and he knows where I stand and that I WONT wait forever, but feel like I at least ought to respect the fact that he wants to make susre its God's will for us.
If this is meant to be; and is God's Will; you two should already know; your intuition should have already told you; and both of you would already be settled and at peace with this within yourselves.
There wouldn't be the uncertainty within you both; that seems to be there now.
What has the Lord told YOU on this?
You always take a chance when you marry; God's Will or not; and a successful marriage takes TWO people; not just one...and both must be willing to each do their part.
Keep us posted on what the Pastor advises you.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
