Monday I'll be making my appointment with a DB coach. i need to make sense of my current goals and whether I'm just being impatient (yes), or if I don't have the right goals (maybe yes).
The DB coach will help you Alamo. I did my first session on Dec 21st and it really got me focused. Things went so well, that I didn't end up using a second session until this past Wednesday.
Let us know what short term goals you come up with.
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
I sure do hope you're in better shape than I am tonight. I always say I am over being depressed, but every so often I allow myself to be bogged down by it again.
I'm well Alamo. Thanks for asking. I know how you are feeling. Trust me. November and December were the two darkest months of my life. All you can do is try to stay busy and have a PMA. GAL is such an important part of this process Alamo. Please make sure that you are working at it.
I'm glad that your posts are showing up immediately. It makes this board much more user friendly when they push the button that allows that.
I will try to catch up with your sitch in the coming days. I've had so much on my own plate with my W the past couple of weeks that I haven't been able to stay up with everyone. I apologize.
I'm sure that FOBD, MJ, 2Step, LIS, Gypsy and some of the other BITS would be happy to weigh in on your sitch too. Reach out to them on their threads. They are great guys/gals.
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
Love going to church with my son, but a nut job of a phone conversation with my wife puts me in a lousy mood. I should man up and be able to ignore it by now, right? But you know what, i think I know one reason why my wife may be in such a spiteful mood this past few days - it's that time of the month for her. Or I may be over thinking it again.
Have a 3 o'clock appointment with a DB coach! Is there anything I should know or prepare before I speak to the coach? Any tips to make the most of the time?
