The DB coach will help you Alamo. I did my first session on Dec 21st and it really got me focused. Things went so well, that I didn't end up using a second session until this past Wednesday.

Let us know what short term goals you come up with.

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce