It sounds like your SB party going to be kicka*s! Wish that I could be there. No worries though, if my W elects not to accept my offer, a buddy of mine and his W are throwing a party that I will go to. I won't be alone either way.
It seems that many of us here are so similar and end up doing similar things. You story of looking at your vacation photos hit me bc I did the EXACT same thing just a little while ago. I broke out the photos of my W and I's honeymoon. Same thing... my W looked amazing and we appeared to be so happy together. I guess that we need to stop doing things like this until our M's are fixed. Then, we need to remember all of the things that we took for granted before so we don't repeat our behaviors.
Let me know how True Grit is... I've been wanting to see that since it came out.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce