Then send her your stuff and let her do them. She's the one not working on the M, why should you stress about the taxes? Tell her that you're fine filing for an extension, but if she wants to take care of them, go for it.
I know that I'm telling you to play a little hard ball here. I'm not telling you to be rude about it though. Always be polite. I'm just saying that your sitch was not your decision. Your W should feel some consequences.
Of course if you just read what I updated on my thread about what I said to my W, you will see that I completely understand that it is easier said than done. I think that I just made my own DB mistake.
Take care man.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce