Well I have a couple options.
Don't pick up the phone and let the machine pick it up and get the kids to call back.
Allow the kids to start picking up the phone instead of me.

All I know is that part of what caused this situation in the first place was emotional distance, and what I've done now for the last 3+ weeks hasn't increased communication frequency or type.

Either I'm not "gone" enough, or I'm too far "gone" and he's totally unconcerned and uninterested no matter what I do.

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Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
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