How are you? I am glad you are sailing along quite well. Your R with H seems to improve a lot. I actually envy you.
I have not the courage to cuddle my W for nearly 2 years now. We are at a plateau. Holiday was nice. No interruption from the om. The first 2 weeks I think my W was still communicating with the om. After then she returned her sister SIM card, so she could not send mail to the om (we were overseas). We did not have any R talk. I did not want to spoil the holiday. On one occasion our D was upset when my W bought 2 set of the same CD. She told her she wanted to give to her co-worker. D locked her up in her room and refuse to have dinner. I asked my W why can't she stop communicating with the om during our holiday. SHe said the CDs was for other FF (not her co-worker). I told her why did not she say so. Since then my W tried not to upset our D again. We had quite an enjoyable holiday. But I feel still the emotional distance between us.
Today my W is back to work. Maybe she jumps straight back to the om. I don't think she got over the R.
