SIC - I hate to do this, but I gotta get in on the 2x4 party here! I know exactly how you are feeling, but you are driving your W straight out the door man! I mean it. The things that she is saying to you are getting worse, not better. What does this tell you? It should tell you that what you are doing is NOT working!

Time to DETACH and go as dark on W as possible under your circumstances. Next time she asks you where you were or who you were with, tell her that since she no longer wants the M, that she no longer has the right to ask you those questions. I'm dead serious about this. You have to turn the tables here. She has ALL of the control.

You can do this SIC.

Sorry for the tough love man.

BITS
Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce