LIS, sorry to rub it in...no I'm not smile
It's only about 70ish so it is a little chilly smile

I get husband of the year award today. She had to work at the hospital but woke up feeling really bad. It's 5am and I said that I'll make her some breakfast. I made toast and eggs but then heard her upstairs barking at her shoes (throwing up). She's been stressing over the move and hasn't been feeling well at all.

She came downstairs, tried to eat something and ran to the bathroom again.

I told her to call off but she said it was too late. I then offered to drive her to work. She agreed.

Well about 4 pullovers and yakking in the bushes later, she called work and said "not today!". I drove her back home and put her to bed. Actually, I called home for the girls to make the bed in our guest room. They're so sweet because they even made her some water and my oldest put a picture of herself in the bedroom.

I know this sent big brownie points to W. Now she can really feel how much I do love her without saying a thing.

She woke up around noonish just to come upstairs and give me a hug. It's those little things that keep you going.

I guess that's the hope that I want to keep giving to everyone out there. Watch for those little things when you are detaching. Eventually, your S will let a little piece of you back in. That's when you can both shine by showing the person you are becoming both with love and in patience.

Stay strong!!!

oh and, heck yeah party at my house! I overlook this huge canyon with plenty of room smile


m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE