I wouldn't say to her that she can rely on you. That can come off wrong. What I mean is you aren't going against her or being a detriment. Does that make sense?

If you're negative or needy around her, that is a detriment. Be cheerful and pleasant. You don't have to get her coffee or anything like that but just be good.

Hope that helps...


m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE