hi islander. i am really new here too and i have spent hours reading here. i know you miss her so bad but do not send the letter. why? because from what i understand, it will feed her more cake she will know she has two men's attention now. so why would she start thinking about coming back to you when she has her two men right now? it also makes you look needy and weak. and pushy. women hate this. stay in no contact for now. please do not send her a letter.
