My wife struts around in those same Lulu Lemon workout pants. Drives me absolutely crazy, but as hard as it is, I just try and ignore it. She actually just walked by in a pair. Hard to believe that up until 15 months ago I could just reach out and grab a handful. Not being able to touch or even hug is hard to deal with on a daily basis. What drives me crazy is when we are at a family function and my BILs all get to hug her when I don't.
I also have to stop all pursuing and detach more. The pursuing just sets us up for failure and disappointment.
