2Step, seriously, YOU. ARE. AWESOME. Do you feel awesome, because you rock!!!
I think that Truegritter is right on the mark. You need to create some mystery and she cannot feel that if you tell her that she knows you inside out. Now, she might know you inside out, but that isn't the point. The point is that you created doubt in her mind... you are changing and THAT IS EXCITING.
I have very curly hair. My H loves curly hair, but every once in awhile I would go have it straightened. It was unexpected and it would excite my H because he said he felt like he was sleeping with another woman. That's the excitement you are creating.
Holy cow, 2Step, these conversations are going great. Nothing negative at all. That's big. You are being patient and kind. You are thinking things through. So... I know you need to wait a little while so it doesn't all seem fake, but have you thought about the next piece of advice that you are going to ask your W about D?
Did I mention... YOU. ARE. AWESOME.
I'm praying for you! Oh and cheering so loud for you!
