Daybreak! Another old-timer! I think I saw Gigi too over on one of the other threads. That makes 4 of us so far.
Sorry that you are selling the house, but you're right, the more you put the past behind you the sooner you can get on with the closure.
It is harder when things drag out. Even 2 years ago I was on here posting about retaining a lawyer again to wrap up the loose ends of our D (5 years after our D). That is all behind me. Life is so much better once you get past all of that. Just give it time.
I'm here now almost 9 years since he left and 7 years divorced, and I may never be completely whole again, but I am a heck of a lot better than I was back then and it gets better every day! Life is good.
I will watch for your update.
Me 47 Ex H 46 Bomb 9/02 D final 3/04 Ex H now married to OW
------------ This is surviving. There is no such thing as a normal life, there's just life. So get on with it and enjoy it!
