Ellie,
I'm glad you are dating. I didn't know there was an online dating thread now. That's great!

Actually I think that all my dating started from online dating. Too funny. My current BF and I met that way too. I might pop in and read some of the threads over there.

I think you should just go out and enjoy yourself. If you find the right guy, then so be it. But don't give up after one cup of coffee either. Enjoy life and what will happen will happen.

I know what you mean about the younger guys. All of a sudden I seem to be getting hit on buy guys I would never even think about dating. What is tht all about anyway? At least it is good for the ego.

I wonder if there is something that we display after we get older after a divorce? I know that I have more confidence and I'm a no BS kinda gal. Can people see that? Makes me wonder.

They also know about the HSD of older women (have actually heard that from them). They might just be curious! haha

Funny about your ex's GF. Isn't it so wonderful though to have all that drama behind you? I feel like a new woman. We still have the occasional hiccup, but life is pretty drama free for months at a time.

The hardest thing is when we have to see each other, but even that gets easier in time.


Me 47
Ex H 46
Bomb 9/02
D final 3/04
Ex H now married to OW

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This is surviving. There is no such thing as a normal life, there's just life. So get on with it and enjoy it!