Agreed. If you try to get her to watch a video about saving a marriage right now it will appear that you are pushing your agenda over hers. She may pull farther away or become more distant. At best, I would say drop a hint about doing it and watch her reaction. If she pulls back, just let it go. Let it be a joint decision, not just your decision. If it is "your" decision it probably won't go well in her mind. JMO. Good luck!

Please just focus on getting as much quality time as you can with your kids right now. They are who you are really going to miss when you have to leave.

BITS never walk alone!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...