Having a hard time... II

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I'm not afraid of the legal divorce. I don't see that as a line in the sand but you seem to. What I don't want to do is push her away more. I'm not reading her mind, I'm reading what she has said and how she has acted. That is all that I have to go off of (along with the advice of this board and resources that I have read) But everyone else points me in the direction of less is more. Of course I want to initiate contact...

I have a question for the pros. My W too is proceeding with full steam ahead on the D path. When i read most of the posts here, i get a feeling that it is better to get your spouse back into the fold before D happens. But what if D happens. I am ready to slug it out and see if i can get my W back and remarry her after the D. Any insight here be appreciated a lot