I have done everything wrong....

[islander]

I don't think I could ever be friends with her again. We shared the most intimate part of our lives together. Then one day she leaves me like it didn't even matter. Then she goes and plays house with OM. That is not something a true friend would do, let alone my W.

I really believe she thinks this will be easier for her if we are friends, and it has nothing to do with the way I feel. If she was concerned about my feelings, she would have never had A, and we would have been in counseling. She is not my friend now, and I will not work on our friendship unless she decides to work on our marriage.