Having a hard time... II

[what next?]

But what about all of the advice that says that the legal divorce is nothing? I'm not sure how she can believe me when I tell her that I have changed for the better if I am going back on my word of letting her go through with the process if she decides that that is what she wants.

So, I could pretty much have the same conversation that I was having when I wrote the email (that I skimmed down into the one line response) and that is ok?

I'm not afraid of the legal divorce. I don't see that as a line in the sand but you seem to. What I don't want to do is push her away more. I'm not reading her mind, I'm reading what she has said and how she has acted. That is all that I have to go off of (along with the advice of this board and resources that I have read) But everyone else points me in the direction of less is more. Of course I want to initiate contact...