I feel right now that I am just trying way to hard. I have been giving her the love I am capable of and doing all of the little things that I would normally do. My sister told me I have to stop doing the little things. She does not deserve them at this point, because she does not love you in the way you are expressing by doing them.
I just need to find a happy medium where I am not pressuring her or going overboard but still be friendly and there for support.
That's the hard part. I looked at it as being a good friend. She simply needs support for HER not for you. I know that sounds rough but that's what you can do.
What do you do for yourself? That's where the GAL comes in. Do things you like or that you WOULD like to do.
The cool part about GAL is that it lets your forget about your sitch temporarily. Plus, there's some added benefits too. Mine was to get back to working out. I started feeling much better about myself and even got some looks from other ladies. Made me feel much better. Now, mind you, some of these ladies at the gym are in their 70's but they're checking me out nonetheless
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
