W in long PA with another woman. I'm devastated.

[Bolt]

it is very difficult but I think if it wasn't it wouldn't be worth it. I think that by you asking her, basically, to come "home" she is feeling pressured. I would lay off and just be her support.

Dude, it is TOUGH no doubt but if you truly want it to work, you can do it. It will take time and an ENORMOUS amount of patience and fortitude.

I guess you really have to sit down with yourself and ask yourself is this the best thing? I do it almost DAILY, man. It is hard for sure but if you do want it to work and if you DO the work, I think it will pay off in the long run.

Like I said, if anything, it makes you a better man.