sparks, you nailed it exactly with the snooping - its definitely not detaching. If anything, it makes matter worse for you. And even worse, if she finds out, makes it even worser (not a word, I know but it works here)
Part of the healing on your end is trusting the other person. At the very least, you'll be a more secure man in the future. If not for your W for someone else. That helps you in the end, right?
We're here for you.
Thanks, Bolt. Trusting is easier said than done. She is still lying to me. I have been told that this is expected, especially for her right now in her sense of shock. That makes it really difficult to detach. I know it is the right thing to do, and now I just need to let it go.
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated
