2step, first - nice! It's a great feeling when they want to continue to talk and we actually don't. It's nice to be "brought back into the room" when you're ready for the conversation to end.
And, I have to tell you, I don't think the song is a bad thing at all. Is it pursuing? Maybe. BUT I think it shows you caring more and NOT begging for the relationship to come back. She wants to see if you still CAN love her the way she needs to be loved.
It worked for me
NOW is where the hard work - truly hard work - begins. You HAVE to take everything she said at face value. Don't look into ANYTHING positive or negative. Take it as a great conversation and leave it at that.
The ball is still in her court. Let HER contact you. The BEST thing you can do is stay detached yet involved. I'm thinking its a great first step but it can be erased if you push it.
It will go against every molecule in your body to not call her. But RESIST!!! It will pay off.
keep it up and stay strong!!
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
