With regards to my wife's assuming I'll TCOB, should I show tough love and say something like, "Technically Saturdays are your days with "E", and I may have plans, regardless of your schedule. So if something of yours comes up, I'll help if I can, but otherwise you need to find someone to watch our son.

What do you think?


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112