UPDATE 8AM

Okay, now I'm pulling my hair out, but trying to understand my wife is coming from. Here she is wanting to have nothing to do with me, yet she still assumes/expects that when she is on call for the hospital, I should be home to TCOB.

1. Why doesn't she provide me with her schedule, instead of expecting me to know it? In the past I've asked her for it, but I still don't have it. I need to more firm with my boundaries.
2. Where is the nanny she said she can arrange for?


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112