I just wanted to add a few things after going back and re-reading this thread several times. I wanted to make SURE I didnt misread anything or post anything uncalled for. I think it was Creed that mentioned "my boundaries", I just wanted to clear up that these were made by "Us", not just me. When we started dating, we were NOT going to church, we were intimate and spent the night and weekend with each other several times over the months. We BOTH decided to begin church, yes same church for both of us.....(i think someone asked that question), and decided we should NOT sleep together according to how we believe. I just recently moved into his home, in my own room, as we thought this would be best, for a trial and too lesson expenses. We have talked about marriage and we want to be married but he wants to wait a little longer, It IS very hard on us, but we deal with it. We have talked and he knows where I stand and that I WONT wait forever, but feel like I at least ought to respect the fact that he wants to make susre its God's will for us. We have decided to talk to our Pastor this Sunday after church and get advice. We are trying to do the right thing. I have made leaps of progress since my divorce but have lots to go. I just wanted to update about my son and get some input on my relationship. To be hones, I though you all would come down hard on me, because I was moving so soon, BOY was I surprised! Instead you gave me the complete opposite. I was mainly wanting to know if you all felt I was moving too soon? Maybe I failed to word it right, I dont know, but I do know I didnt want to be judged in any way and I dont want to judge anybody. We have ALL got to make it......and I DONT mean marriage wise, I mean to HEAVEN, if not, we are headed for a place WAY MORE bitter and hot than ANY MLCer can dish out.
