Hey there Ellie! It's so great to hear from you. I am pretty darn sure that I owe you an email or two. Sorry!
I am good. Got another promotion at work. Still doing the mom and college thing. Kids are great - 24 and 17 yrs old now - I am getting old!
Congrats on the divorce. That took awhile huh?
I am the same way as you are about my ex. Sometimes I am glad things are the way they are. I don't regret those years, the memories, etc..., but I like my life the way it is now. And I don't need someone else to make me feel valued.
It took me being alone for awhile to figure all that out. Wish I could help teach that to others, but it's just something you gotta figure out on your own by doing the time.
Funny, I saw him at work yesterday. I actually went out of my way to stop and talk to him. I even talk to his W sometimes on the phone, and in person, if you can believe that. How far things have come!
A rock band huh? That is so cool. Do you sing too?
So you still popping in on threads and giving advice doc?
Me 47 Ex H 46 Bomb 9/02 D final 3/04 Ex H now married to OW
------------ This is surviving. There is no such thing as a normal life, there's just life. So get on with it and enjoy it!