Hey there Ellie! It's so great to hear from you. I am pretty darn sure that I owe you an email or two. Sorry!

I am good. Got another promotion at work. Still doing the mom and college thing. Kids are great - 24 and 17 yrs old now - I am getting old!

Congrats on the divorce. That took awhile huh?

I am the same way as you are about my ex. Sometimes I am glad things are the way they are. I don't regret those years, the memories, etc..., but I like my life the way it is now. And I don't need someone else to make me feel valued.

It took me being alone for awhile to figure all that out. Wish I could help teach that to others, but it's just something you gotta figure out on your own by doing the time.

Funny, I saw him at work yesterday. I actually went out of my way to stop and talk to him. I even talk to his W sometimes on the phone, and in person, if you can believe that. How far things have come!

A rock band huh? That is so cool. Do you sing too?

So you still popping in on threads and giving advice doc? smile


Me 47
Ex H 46
Bomb 9/02
D final 3/04
Ex H now married to OW

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This is surviving. There is no such thing as a normal life, there's just life. So get on with it and enjoy it!