lost

[verysad2day]

I did the "bad" and called him...no answer. He called back 10 minutes later and was somewhat short, said he had a headache and wanted to go to bed. I wished him a good night. 40 minutes later, I get a text from him "good night" so confused. This is MY house before marriage, he said he rented a place...6 weeks and he still hasn't left. I need answers. How soon is to soon to ask "again"? I did last Sunday, and he told me if I wanted/needed resolve he would leave. Heart aching