I know I am slow on the updating.. and the answering of questions. As usual a lot of things have been happening in my life. I find myself tired and not willing to devote the time to post. Nothing much has changed at this point. I have a lot of "work" at Work. We finally bought "something" and now have 7 weeks to make it happen.
So.. on to the questions and filling in...
"can you please give us some info about the sitch? Like what you said about you sleeping in different rooms etc. How are your schedules? Did you ever manage to find time alone?"
The last post was just kinda a catch up. From my point of view. Why I am acting the way I am.
We are sleeping in separate rooms for a few reasons. The main reason is that my son is always in bed with my wife. I have asked and devoted a reasonable amount of time to getting him to sleep in his room. I have purchased a dvd player. I have redecorated. I have said "I would like for S to sleep in his bed." I have to move him every night. To her letting him fall asleep in the bed is just quality time. So when I put him in his room.. and he comes back.. she pulls the covers back for him.
We don't go to sleep at the same time. But back in the day (after we got back together) I used to talk to her before she went to sleep. This is hard to do with a 8 year old.. not going to sleep. I feel I have been clear on this.. and I have every reason to believe that she understands why I am asking for this simple thing.
As far as our schedules she gets home about 30-45 mins before I do. So most of the time when I walk in the door everyone is hungry. I find myself being the "go boy" 80% of the time. Even when things were "good". She has never really cooked. Or even gone to the store. I am just not sure how I am supposed to work in "kid time" when from the min I walk in the door.. I have dinner "duty".
Personally I think she is scared of "Alone Time".
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
