Well guys, I am torn. I want to ask her out, but also afraid of the denial. I do believe I have to take a step sometine though, just like the validation talk. Waiting for her I believe will never happen.
I believe I have the patience to wait for her to come to me with things such as R talk, but the way she keeps things to herself is a big reason we are here in the first place. I am sure I am going to have to take the first step on almost everything, the problem is getting my other foot to follow.
I got burned so bad on my first attempt many months ago, that now I am pretty gun shy, but I believe more experienced.
I thought about asking her if I made reservations for dinner, would she like to go? I want to be prepared with a response if she denies. I thought about just saying, "ok, but I am still going" or "ok" I will find a widow in town that deserves a nice dinner on valentines day".
No matter what her response, I am not going to be home that night. If she wants to stay home and not be happy on v-day, fine. If I am not going to be happy on v-day, I am at least going to try to be.
H-40 W-38 Together-20 Married-12 boy-7 girl-3 bomb-9/17/10 No papers live together No affair