The problem with snooping.

You don't find something you look harder. suddenly access to her email account now becomes driving by her work, her house the OW's house.

You do find something and you redouble your efforts as well.

I'm not saying be naive, I absolutely believe in the trust but verify approach.

I am saying snooping become addictive and a hard thing to stop.


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