That's great Jack. Hopefully, I can be a success story too. I do have another question though. She has always been close to our boys. Now she doesn't seem to care about them as much. If they are lucky, they will get a 2 minute phone call from W once a day. Sometimes it is only a text. However, she din't contact them at all yesterday or the day before. She hasn't contacted them today either. Why would she distance herself from her kids?

Currently:
M 57 XW 58
Sons 39,34,32,30

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13