This Storm Shall Pass

[dolphin_05]

I can't really figure things out on my own, I'm working on it. I think if I knew what to do and what was going on I would be able to chat, probably makes no sense to anyone reading this (then again it might make perfect sense, LOL).

Take your time. This has been a l-o-n-g process. A little bit longer won't hurt.

I have had no contact with my lawyer, she has sent me three letters inquiring about my intent and I can't seem to make up my mind what I want. I want her to leave me alone to think. I am still trying to fire her. She does not want to stop representing me. She feels really bad how she treated me. I'll figure it out.

Tell her to give you space or tell her to buzz off. Either way, you have control; you're paying the bill.

Cas, your D is such a smart girl I love how she thinks!!!

Yes! She seems to have it figured out.

I have been reading along on your interactions with H. It's the same old same old that I experience here. It's exactly what I expect and don't trust. I don't see that they are capable of making a choice to commit back to us and their family .

Sad but true.

I assume you are still holding the "papers". H has not reached out for them. Am I right?

Yes, you're right! All the rubbish pushing me and then no action. Same old, same old.

You didn't tell us if or how you responded (I assume you stayed dark on H). I think you are back in the drivers seat.

I answered the minimum and was polite but I did not initiate further conversation.

I have to say I have managed with n/c extremely well until this week. I miss our interactions. I don't know why I felt it this week.

Cas