I picture her with him and it pisses me off so bad. I know that I shouldn't worry about it but it really upsets me. I can't help it. How can I not worry about it? As long as W is seeing OM, I don't have a chance. I just can't believe she would even do something like this. It is not like her at all. This is the hardest thing that I've ever gone through by for and I'm only 4 months since the bomb. I'm crying as I write this. I'm just so broken-hearted. Even thinking about her with OM makes me want to call her or send a nasty email. How do I make her miss me when she has already replaced me?
Tad,
Most of us have been where you are right now so I know how
painful it is experiencing what you are going through.
Anything you do that is in regards to her right now will be
pressure to her as her perception. This stuff really sux I know.
If you are only 4 months from bomb there is a long, long road
ahead of you in most of these cases. You are getting some awesome
advice here from people that have walked where you are walking
right now.
I almost sent that email that you are mentioning. BUT, now I am
so glad I did not. There is so much to learn here and you have
this opportunity to learn it. I have felt exactly the way you do
now many times but each time you feel this you will move forward.
If you thought you had more patience than anybody you know
previous to all of this, you are going to have an awakening.
You won't be able to make her miss you overnight.
Keep posting your frustrations here because we will listen.
If you take your frustrations elsewhere, you are likely to regret
