Mach, MHL, MsRae, Jack, Cadet, Everyone - I thank you for all of the great advice. I'm just having a real hard time with the whole OM thing. I picture her with him and it pisses me off so bad. I know that I shouldn't worry about it but it really upsets me. I can't help it. How can I not worry about it? As long as W is seeing OM, I don't have a chance. I just can't believe she would even do something like this. It is not like her at all. This is the hardest thing that I've ever gone through by for and I'm only 4 months since the bomb. I'm crying as I write this. I'm just so broken-hearted. Even thinking about her with OM makes me want to call her or send a nasty email. How do I make her miss me when she has already replaced me?

Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13