While joking around once, H offered to "freak me out" again, so I could loose weight. I said "no, I'd do it the old fashioned way - the treadmill."
I don't think OW is going anywhere. Mentioned it in conversation with H tonight. She called the owner last week to talk about the cut in pay, and then H said she was leaving. I asked if they had talked. "If she goes, it's more work for me." Still, as long as there are more goods than bads. I'm happy with me, and that's what is most important.
