Thanks, Jack. She may not tell me that it was her choice to end the affair. She makes it sound like it was made for her as an ultimatum, but in the end, she did make the decision. She could have just as easily said to heck with it all and continued.

I will also have to tone down the asking of reassurance without proof. I can see how this would push her away. It was just a weak moment for me, since it was her first night alone.

Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated