BITS LIS is correct, do not show her the book.

That is your play book.

Most WAS's see it as a trick/trap to keep them married.

The book is not some magical device that will open their eyes.
Keep it to yourself.


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Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet