In the end, does it matter that the ending of the affair was not her decision?
How was it not her decision?
The choice was hers, unless I misread this. Yeah you wrote a letter and her C suggested she do it, but in the end the choice was hers.
It being her choice is actually a good thing.
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Am I just being paranoid due to the mistrust of the affair?
Oh yeah.
Almost anyone suriving a spouses affair is. You are going to need her reassurances, but do not be so needy that you push her away either.
Do not jump to conclusions, do not accuse without proof, but keep an eye, affairs are insidious things. Outright trust of her, is foolish, it needs to be rebuilt. But so is accusing her every waking moment of continuing the affair based soley on your paranoia.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
