I've decided that I am going to do something nice for the kids and maybe plan a nice family dinner. Not going to make any specific mention of it to the W, as she knows I've never really liked the "corporate" holiday known as Valentine's Day - and she'd be sure to remind me if do anything for her.

At most I may decide to just get her a simple card, but may just help the girls to make a card for her.

I'm doing so well being detaching and difusing the sitch, that I really don't want to mess it up by doing something she'll perceive as "pursuing".

At the same time I'd love to buy her some flowers, and card and some nice lingerie...but that will have wait for now. frown

Me - 34
W - 33
M - 8 years
T - 15 years
D7, D5, D2
Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY"
W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011