Wedding anniversary is in August, that would be 12 years.

Valentine's day is the anniversary of us being together, 20 years. Not as important as wedding, but valentines's day has a little more meaning than just valentine's day.

I am not sure if I should do anything, wouldn't that seem pursuing?

H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair