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#212688 12/31/03 02:43 PM
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Kelli

Happy New Year!!!
I think the jeep was a great choice.
Keep him busy and happy at home.
Glad you had a good time last night.


I sure hope OW does find another job.
I understand how you feel about if she leaves and what that could do to H.
I kept tabs on XOW for awhile.
When I saw her H was divorcing her I called H up and told him.
I was pretty upset.
But it all went well
Gosh Kelli, the emotions and things we went through in 2003
we survived and 2004 is going to ROCK!!!!

Gotta go S3 is trying to order pizza on the phone @9:40 in the morning!
Kim


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#212689 12/31/03 06:22 PM
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So did you have pizza for lunch?

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Keep on posting all the good things that are happening with you. Since it seems that our H's are so much alike, it does give me hope!!

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#212691 01/02/04 11:11 PM
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A new milestone, I have been called by H enough that I know his cell phone number. I have it in speeddial, so I don't dial it at all, but today I did. And when I called, no short answer, and even put off who he was with to talk to me for a minute.

Goals for the new year - loose the weight I put back on from the MLC diet. Build good moments with H and son. Hang drapes in the living room. Be nicer.

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Kelli,
No we didn't have pizza for lunch.
Son3 is definetly keeping me on my toes.
If he isn't peeing out the front door he is trying to take pictures of D13 & I doing crunches in the living room.


Sheesh I do believe I am ready for the little darling to head
back to school.

I'm glad you & H are coming back together.

You gained weight also?

Yuck! I can't believe I put the weight back on!!!

Anyway keep smiling!!

Kim


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#212693 01/03/04 01:58 AM
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While joking around once, H offered to "freak me out" again, so I could loose weight. I said "no, I'd do it the old fashioned way - the treadmill."

I don't think OW is going anywhere. Mentioned it in conversation with H tonight. She called the owner last week to talk about the cut in pay, and then H said she was leaving. I asked if they had talked. "If she goes, it's more work for me."
Still, as long as there are more goods than bads. I'm happy with me, and that's what is most important.


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What's the deal with the weight gain??? I had lost 36 lbs. and have put about half of it back on Not that I am happy that you and others have also gained some of the weight back, but it is nice to know that I am not the only one.

I do agree with you though....I would much rather work it off than go through the bomb thing again!!

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Well, that's my new year's resolution!
On an aside note, I brought up OW in conversation, and H didn't shut down - didn't react well, but didn't shut down...

Second resolution - don't over analyze!

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Kelli,
3rd resolution: don't bring up OW! Let H do it.


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
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This week has been a good week - except gained a few more pounds. Monday, the diet starts. H has been very good of late. I'm even starting to believe that he has dropped his fantasy.
I still worry about it being for good, but that's in the future, and I can't and won't predict the future. I was once asked in a job interview where I wanted to be in 5 years, and I answered that I couldn't answer, that I have never anticipated the best things that have happened in my life, and leave the door open for them.

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