I have a question. On Wednesday night when H dropped off the kids from his visitation with them, I mentioned I had to work on the weekend for a couple hours.
Now, I seldom ever ask H to watch the kids for me, I make other arrangements. I figure,when/if it's all said and done I'm going to be alone anyway and will have to deal with all the logistics of child care/raising as it is so I may as well get used to not relying on him and causing myself pain by the contact.
He has his regular visitation that we agreed to.
My question is this: My H said that he'd be willing to watch the kids for me so I could work this weekend. Now, is that an opening to me, or just an offer because he wants to see the kids more?
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
