I guess welcome back although I don't know anybody ever really wants to be back. Man, only you can figure out what to do from here. What are your boundaries what are you willing to do and not do. I know my answer.......time for you to find yours.
I am all about DBing and saving a M but not at the expense of losing myself and my personal integrity. I will save my M as long as BOTH parties can enrich the M and be better. I know what I am doing and you know what you have done......What is she doing?
Time to take some personal stock in yourself and your M. 19yrs is a long time to throw away but you have to be complete as a person for yourself before you can be complete of a M to work out.
